My Coaching Style
I offer no guarantees. No 5 step program. I feel that’s too confining. Too human and ego based. We are all so different, and our journeys and steps we take are true to us. While I have a great toolbox I’ve gained of things that will help you along the way, everyone’s path will be different. I like to stay open to that, and to what I’m guided to share with you in each session. And you will do with it what you feel guided to do! There are no expectations – no obligations – just an exchange. I won’t be checking off any boxes or giving you assignments. Just relax. Be open. See where you are guided to go with it.
I feel that we are led to each other for a reason. That our souls bring certain people – or other souls really – into our lives to help us. I have had many teachers, healers, coaches and guides along my path as well, and every one of them brought me important pieces of the ‘puzzle’ of this journey. Things that helped me, healed me, gave me new clarity, and moved me forward in different ways. I simply offer you what I’ve learned, what I channel through me, and what I’m guided to say to you in every session. I’m here to support you, and you can determine if it’s the right fit for you.
My Personal Experience
I have been on a long journey of awakening, healing, and deep self-love for many years now. I really believe we are on this path throughout our life, but I have personally been more actively pursuing these things over the past 14 or so years. My true shakedown my soul gave me to awakening was a toxic, karmic marriage that started to wake me up to patterns, beliefs, and my deep feelings of unworthiness. To needing to value and love myself. To see the reasons behind these issues, in this lifetime and in past lives. It was after finding the courage to walk away from this marriage that I really started to pursue my healing journey, loving myself more, and finding my own spirituality – or really, waking up to the soul that I am!
I am constantly reading books, working with healers, doing sessions with intutives/psychics/spiritual advisors, learning about my own multidimensional abilities, following different spiritual teachers, taking classes, honing my own self-care, spending more time alone and reconnecting with who I am and what I love, and over the years I even tried different spiritual businesses where I helped and served others – as I learned and grew more in my desire to live from the soul and to serve in a greater way.
My Current Status and Beliefs
I still work with an amazing healer/teacher/intuitive every week myself, as well as other amazing healers and spiritual advisors on occasion. I have surrounded myself with souls that I resonate with, and who I can be completely myself with. And I am living more in alignment with my heart and soul – and in my truth – than ever before. I can fully see that I am a creator, creating my human life here, and it’s completely up to me to follow the path my soul desired to take.
I have done so much healing work, I am releasing the ego fear mind – aligning it with my heart, and I am living a life in a very calm and peaceful state of gratitude, surrender to my soul/the divine, and acceptance of my journey. I see that my soul planned everything. That everyone is here to help us on our desired path of growth and deeper learning. That victim mentality and lower vibrational emotions are all coming from the fearful human, and once they are healed and compassionately loved, they will release these thoughts and feelings.
You will see the bigger picture from soul level. And you will understand that everyone is here for a purpose, learning and growing and teaching – sometimes very challenging lessons. But it is all from a place of love at soul level. And our souls only desire to bring love to their life here, and love to the planet. That is why we are to follow the call of our hearts – because that is our soul connection. That is where our soul’s desires and plans for this lifetime are ‘housed’. And the open and healed heart, aligned with the peaceful and faithful mind, can bring it all in!
Who Am I Coaching?
I am currently focused on coaching Twin Flames. I am a twin flame and have been on this journey for several years, arguably many years, with all the hints that were dropped to me over the years by my divine team through the intuitives and healers I worked with. It was four years ago at this point, though, that my spiritual advisor told me I was a twin flame. She told me that it was very rare, and incredibly special, and it became clear that my mission and purpose would align with it all. At the time she told me he followed my business (this business) on social media, and she said his first name. I quickly said his last name. I knew in an instant who it was. She confirmed with, “uh huh.” But immediately my unworthiness and fears kicked in. I told her, “but he is handsome, charismatic, successful, cultured, he travels the world, and lives on the other side of the planet” – in other words, how in the world would this amazing man ever want to be with ME? I was living in a small apartment in Wisconsin with my two dogs, I was confused about my path, unhappy with where I lived, and feeling a bit lost in life – having had a major dark night of the soul a couple months before my session with her. I completely denied to myself that he could be my twin flame. I was in a very deep place of unworthiness.
It took me a solid year of healing work with a hypnotherapist and other healers to really see clearly that he WAS indeed my twin flame. I was reading a book on twin flames when it became crystal clear to me, and I reached out to him that night to see if he might like to come and visit me? He said he would, actually, and we really started connecting more deeply. I could FEEL the connection more than anything, and that night I felt like my heart was exploding and I was more aroused than I had ever been! It was insane! I was up all night! It was the most intense and indescribable feeling I have ever had! And when I did a post about it with my business the next day (at least about the heart – LOL), he liked it! So I could only assume that he felt it too!
This was the beginning for us. We had some deep, sweet and unconditionally loving messages we sent back and forth for a short time. But then it started. The separation. Covid had just shut everything down, including travel, and the timing was impeccable. He ran, pushed back, said, “it’s not you, it’s me”, and he was gone. That was 2.5 years ago at this point. It’s been a long seperation with a lot of healing happening for both of us. We communicate every several months, we flirt a bit, and we send sweet messages on occasion. You never fall out of communication completely with your twin flame, even when there are very long stretches of silence. We are not yet in union, but I feel ready, and I know he’s at least well on his way there too. Your twin flame is never far behind you on the healing path to union.
Separation is such a powerful time, and yet it’s incredibly challenging at times. How do you explain to people that the man of your dreams ran away from you, but you are both healing, and you will be back together again later – that you have faith that it will happen. I’ve had people, who I thought would see it more clearly, look at me like I was nuts. I see pity on their face, like I’m just not facing the fact that he doesn’t want me. It’s not an easy road sometimes. But even though we aren’t to union yet, I can say that based on other twin flames I have encountered – and my own feelings and visions about the future – that it will all be SO worth it in the end! The connection is so deep and powerful – it’s indescribable! It’s the challenging, but rewarding, journey that our soul chose to go on! And the unconditional love that you have between you will NEVER die. Because you are one heart – one soul.
What others don’t understand is that you and your twin are ONE SOUL. While you are in ‘separation’, you are actually working together to bring your humans into alignment – to heal this life and past lives – and come to a place of true unconditional love for yourself (for your human, really), and faith and deeper connection with your own divinity. To reprogram and align the mind with the heart and soul – from fear, back to love. From this place of wholeness, alignment, love and peace is where your soul can bring it’s two parts (the two of you) back together to work in harmony. Because the ego mind and all of it’s fears and human beliefs of limitations – that is what needs to be released, so that you can live from the heart and soul – which is where you are both THE SAME. This is when you really see and feel each other. This is when you connect deeply. Because you can’t deny the connection when you are both living from the heart and soul. And when you do – and you come into union – that’s when the bigger magic begins! Because you will have a greater mission together, and be able to really live the life of your dreams – your soul’s dreams! A life of deep love, passion, devotion, romance, and bliss!
Not only that, but there is actually a bigger purpose for twin flames. Not just your leadership, mission, and example of unconditional love on the planet, but the energy of your love will actually lift and shift everyone around you, and the energy of the planet. There is a reason that there are more twin flames than usual right now. While it’s still rare (far less than 1% of the population), more have come right now to help lift the energy of the planet as we move through the transformation and ascension to the ‘new earth’ that we are going through. From 3D to 5D consciousness. From a lower to a higher vibration. From fear back to love. It’s a really important path you are on in this lifetime!
So if you know who your twin flame is, I am happy to help guide you through this experience a bit. Please don’t be intimidated by the duration of my ‘separation phase’ either, because everyone is different. I’ve seen some couples that did their healing work and came back together in weeks or months. Anything is possible! It’s all dependent on what you are healing from this lifetime and past lifetimes. Just be open to this journey, whatever it holds for you, knowing it’s your soul’s divine destiny that you are fulfilling. It’s really about reaching your own heaven on earth while still here in human form! It will all be worth it!
How to Initiate Your Sessions
If you’d like to reach out and set up an introductory call with me, to see if we are a good match for coaching, please reach out to me via email at firstname.lastname@example.org
My current introductory rate is $200/hour (US currency), and we will decide how much time is needed per session for you. We can schedule from 30 minutes – up to 1.5 hours, as we feel guided – or as time allows.
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